"Talent will take you where only character can keep you." Jentezen Franklin
Last weekend I visited my home village along with my mum. We were going to sort out some family issues relating to land and since chiefs are involved when it comes to land issues we interacted with the chief of our area. In Malawi where I come from and am currently based the structure is such that you have a village headman/woman who reports to a Group Villageman/woman, then there is a senior Group Village Headma/woman, then I think you have a senior chief and above him/her is a sub-Traditional Authority then the Traditional Authority (TA)... not too sure there..
Anyway, we spent Sunday morning with the Traditional Authority of our area and just before he left he gave a short speech with some words of wisdom... as most chiefs would... since they are considered to be custodians of the elders' tradition and culture as well as wisdom. In his words he said "khalidwe ndi chuma" which translates "good character is wealth" (may not he the best way of putting it, but I guess you get the sense of it). This got me thinking.
I think we seem to forget the value of good character. When the TA said these words I thought about their application. I could point to people who had good character and what this had gotten them in life and also those whom were said to have bad character. A good example is my own grandpa... the reason that the TA was able to come to our village and spend a whole morning with us was because he had a deep respect for my late grandfather whom he considered to have been a very humble man despite the fact that he was more educated than most in the village. He was approachable and helped where he could. As a result of this even his children were treated well by people. Of course some were not 'deserving' but for his sake, even after his death, they still received good treatment in general.
On the flip side, his younger brother was known to be a very difficult man. Today, although he is now quite old and is the only surviving member of his family, he does not command the same kind of respect people had for his older brother. This perception of his character filters through to the way people treat his children...
I think we can all point to such examples. It seems good character is indeed a very valuable resource that all of us should strive to possess. It will bring you favor with people and open doors that would otherwise would have been closed.
At the top of this post I have quoted Jentezen Franklin who said "Talent will take you where only character can keep you." You see, you might rise to the top, but if you do not have good character you will tumble down very quickly. We have good examples in some of the popular athletes and other celebrities. As much as the world will tell us to indulge in any and all the pleasures that are available to us and to satisfy our desires... the same world will crucify us if our character is compromised as we go about doing this. Again, we have many examples of this..
So to everyone reading this... recognize that character is a very valuable resource... one you should make all efforts to accumulate.